- Its futile. Its destructive, and its blinding. Of all the futile and destructive emotions to which human beings are prey, perhaps the most universal and the worst kind is resentment. This universal emotion though does have its “rewards”. It assures us of our own importance. It also allows us to hang onto our image of ourselves as fundamentally “good” — whatever our actual behaviour.
THE office clown has always played a beneficial role in the workplace but with increasing worker sensitivity, cracking a joke with a colleague could be seen as discriminatory or bully-like behaviour. […]
How is it that people are now openly talking more about one topic in particular? Is it just me? I suspect not. I’ve certainly observed increasing numbers of my clients asking what might be called “eternal questions”. “What am I here for?”, “What legacy can I leave behind?”, “What contribution can I make to the world?”, “How can I be of service?” and “What is my life purpose?” […]
This topic has captured the imagination of the business world especially over the last decade or so where we are now studying what it takes for people to be able to step up and for a leader to be able to really lead.
So what is Emotional Intelligence (EI)? […]
It’s not a topic often talked about. From the psychologist’s office though, it is probably true to say that it’s the most necessary thing that client’s often need to do. Forgive. Forgive a friend who wronged them, forgive a boss who bullied them, forgive a parent who abused them, forgive an aunt who cheated them, forgive a sibling who upset them.
Why bother with forgiveness? Is it really just a bit “old hat”, or maybe just a bit “too religious”? […]
Ever thought about thinking? A funny question I know. But that’s what thinking is. Thinking is simply the process of asking and answering questions.
Thinking starts from the moment we wake up in the morning to the time we go to bed at night (and sometimes it stops us from going to sleep because we worry or think some more!). Ever wondered how many questions we might ask ourselves in a single day? I know it’s not the kind of thing that you’d normally think about, but now that I’ve asked it, what would you guess? 100 questions a day? 1,000 questions a day? Maybe 5,000 a day? While it can’t be empirically measured, Dr Wayne Dyer in his book, “Your Sacred Self” has estimated that we ask around 60,000 questions a day!
Now in that myriad of questions that involves both your conscious and unconscious thinking, there is one basic life question that keeps getting asked over and over again. Did you know that you have a basic life question? You may or may not know it, but you do. […]